Everyone experiences grief differently. There is no set time for how long grief endures and there is no “right or wrong” way to grieve. Regardless of a person’s way of coping with loss, grief is almost always associated with a lot of emotional pain. It is important to understand that grieving and experiencing sadness is not a form of weakness – it is merely a sign that you are experiencing the impact of losing a person whom you loved. In fact, as we read from Scripture, we know that Jesus wept over the death of his friend, Lazarus (John 11).
Here are some tips that you can use to take care of yourself:
Find ways to take care of yourself during these days and find people who will listen to your pain without judgement and without forcing you to rush through your grief. Sometimes, it can be healthy to reach out and seek professional counseling as you walk through this time.
Courtesy of Catholic Cemeteries of the Archdiocese of Vancouver
Your parish clergy are a wonderful resource for you during this time of loss. As an extension of your parish, our deacons at Catholic Cemeteries are also available to offer prayer, comfort and consolation to you and your family.
Deacon Dan Keller
Deacon Jim Tardy
Deacon Norm Tierney